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24Feb/100

Did Cheryl Cole split with Ashley with text message Full Stop?

Pending the official break up announcement today of the celebrity couple, singer Cheryl Cole and footballer Ashley Cole, speculation must be aroused on the text message content Cheryl sent her husband about separating.  What on earth could you put into 160 characters to sum up the public humiliation that the Girls Aloud star has faced over Trashley's infidelities?

I once dumped a girl via text message, and I'm shamed to admit it, with just a full stop.  Yes, the content consisted of the text, "." and it was pretty much the point, "full stop", "no more", "end of", "over", "period".  This was 10 years ago, I was young and this was not a long term relationship, and I know of a friend who ended a female commitment in this fashion also.  It's quick and simple way of dumping someone, and does release that built up emotion and frustration.  It also requires a period of silence thereafter, as you'd expect responses of "er, what?", "did you mean to send me a full stop", etc.  They eventually get the point.

I can imagine the media have certainly fueled the fire in which Ashley's dirty washing has been exposed on a global scale.  Read today that the 5 women who've been outed as bed conquests of the Chelsea and England International player spanning a number of years, do feel some regret about coming clean.  More than can be said for those bed sheets then.

In 2002 I worked in a bar in Chiswick with a girl who'd slept with Kian Egan from Westlife and sold story to the newspapers.  It was something that she openly said she regretted in conversation with me, and for whatever level of peer stature this brought her, I'm sure she felt that the money received didn't outweigh the long term association she had with this kiss and tell story.  Anyway, back to a more attractive celebrity, Cheryl Cole or soon to be Cheryl Tweedy perhaps.  Ashley, WTF?  Friends of mine have said that out of 10, they'd give Cheryl 1.

Why would someone earning £120,000 a week, seem to have almost everything (a working week consisting of 5 half days during the week and a full day at the weekend, involves some travel that is paid for, a lovely house and a stunning wife), stray off with women on many occasions?  Maybe there are more high profile sportsmen than just Ashley, John Terry and Tiger Woods?  It would seem that only Avram is paying for it, yet the others are paying for it with their relationships and going to rehab.

I wonder if celebrities get a discount when attending rehabilitation clinics, e.g. a celebrity referal programme.  There must be a lot of money spent in rehab.  The Bettty Ford Center may have been the popular hang out for those caught up with a narcotics addiction in Beverly Hills, whilst the sex-addiction clinics such as the exclusive Montrose Place in South Africa must be loving it.

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18Feb/100

BRIT Awards 2010, Winners and Aftershow Parties

Tuesday 16th February, and it's the 30th Brit Awards 2010 in London. Ticket in hand and it's off to Earls Court for the night. Accessing the exclusive side entrance, I look across and see the camera flashes as celebs walk up the red carpet in the rain, see below.

Paparazzi cameras light up the red carpet outside Earls Court for The BRITs 2010

After some pre-dinner drinks and bumping into people I know and have worked with, it was time to take our front section seats for a top notch meal and a deafening mix of entertainment. Now wish I had custom earplugs made after all.

Sitting in the A section (the front 5 or 6 rows of tables) for Platinum Guests, around me sat stars of music past, present and future. As Craig David brushed past me, each direction you looked, a star or celeb sat tucking into the nosh and drinking champagne, wine and bottles of beer.

Being the only one on the table not drinking, the jug of orange juice and bottles of mineral water was just a tease. Yes, I managed the entire night not to drink alcohol, and polished off that OJ too. The MasterCard beermats were a touch and a shame I could only slip half a dozen into the jacket pocket for a future flipping video. Would have loved to have carted out a box of them for a record breaking attempt.

As the cheese board diminished around the table, the lights dimmed, and the countdown began. The 30th Brit Awards was about to start.

Check out the video below of the opening with Lily Allen making her entrance on a rocket!

Peter Kay was brilliant and I can't wait to watch the show again having taped it on Sky+ Remote Record. Unquestionably his best line quipped "What a knobhead" was after Liam Gallagher through the microphone and award into the crowd. Now apparently there was a live delay for the broadcast and the "best fucking fans in the world" was bleeped out, so producers were prepared...

However, not prepared with a spare microphone. What you didn't see was during the commercial break; the begging over the speakers for the thrown microphone to be handed back. Yes, we appreciate they are expensive, but to say that keeping it will prevent artists performing seemed a bit ill planned. Would love to have seen that and the award up on eBay.

Earls Court is pretty massive and this video below, taken during an ad break, shows the size of the place and the thousands of people up in the top tiers.

The Brits ended with Robbie Williams singing 9 songs in total, including the Take That classic 'Everything Changes'.  At 10pm with the TV cameras were no longer broadcasting, and the crowd screamed and begged for more. And Robbie responded with a fitting ending for his Outstanding Contribution award.

The Brit Awards 2010 Winners

  • Brits Performance Of The Last 30 Years: Spice Girls for Wannabe/Who Do You Think You Are? (1997)
  • British Male Solo Artist: Dizzee Rascal
  • International Male Solo Artist: Jay-Z
  • Brits Album Of The Last 30 Years: Oasis for (What's The Story) Morning Glory?
  • British Breakthrough Act: JLS
  • British Group: Kasabian
  • International Breakthrough Act: Lady GaGa
  • International Female Solo Artist: Lady GaGa
  • British Female Solo Artist: Lily Allen
  • International Album: Lady GaGa for The Fame
  • British Single: JLS for Beat Again
  • The MasterCard British Album: Florence and the Machine for Lungs
  • British Producer: Paul Epworth
  • Critics Choice Ellie Goulding
  • Outstanding Contribution to Music: Robbie Williams

The Brit Awards 2010 Aftershow Parties

The major record labels pulled out all the stops to celebrate the night for their artists, staff and guests by hosting aftershow parties across London.

Whilst the Gold & Platinum Guests who were seated and dined during the night, could attend the aftershow party upstairs in Earls Court, the real glamour and exclusivity was to be had in venues in central and west London hosted by the labels themselves.

The dailies and evening papers on Wednesday were full of photos and gossip of who went where. It was like a roll call of A-lister music stars and TV celebs.

Universal Music seemed to pull off the biggest, and no bias just because I was there. There was in no particular order; Lady GaGa, Lily Allen, Florence Welch, Liam Gallagher, Suggsy, Courtney Love, Sting's daughter and possibly Sting himself, Ellie Goulding, Nicola Roberts and Kimberley Walsh from Girls Aloud, Meatloaf, Sugababes, Holly Valance, Lee Ryan, Pixie Lott, Frankie Sandford And Mollie King from The Saturdays, Pixie Geldoff, Rachel Stevens and even Leigh Francis who does Bo' Selecta!  I didn't see Craaaaiiiiiiig David there though.

The venue was the Mandarin Oriental Hotel in Hyde Park, Knightsbridge. The party was held in the Ballroom and Carlyle Room.  The Ballroom oozed of 24-carat gilding, breathtaking chandeliers and dramatic floor to ceiling windows.  Apparently this is where HM Queen Elizabeth II learned to dance here with her sister, the late Princess Margaret.  Click on the link and you'll see photos of the regal staircase you'd walk up after entering the exclusive red carpet entrance from Knightsbridge.

Now it was this entrance that I was almost squashed under a frenzy of paparazzi as I arrived. Seconds from stepping onto the red carpet, a car literally crossed my path and pulled up kerbside. The paps went nuts. Shouts of "it's becks" rang out, assuming it was Posh they meant. Hardly, Victoria was most likey in Milan watching David lose to Man Utd at the San Siro.

Anyway, regardless of this, the silver car door swung out and two lovely ladies stepped out, Nicola Roberts from Girls Aloud and Kimberley Walsh.  My camera was to hand anyway and whipped it out at took my own contributing flash.  Below shows that very moment.

The paparazzi go mental outside the Manderin Oriental hotel for Universal Music's BRITs 2010 aftershow party

In fact, once inside the Mandarin Oriental Hotel, I walked past the two of them having their photo taken inside.  This is the photo at that very moment, if the camerman zoomed out just 1 foot, you'd see me walking past Kimberly.

Other parties that were reported included Warner Music's Chinawhite bash which apparently had Jay-Z, but others say he was at the West End club Merah Long with JLS.

EMI entertained at the Supperclub in Notting Hill with Robbie Williams making a brief visit with girlfriend Ayda Field, and others including James Corden, Freddie Flintoff and Jamie Redknapp.

Sony BMG were at the Kensington Hotel where Alexandra Burke and apparently JLS were seen. Those JLS boys must have done rounds that night. Why not, being a Brit winner is something to show off!

Kasabian were hosting a War Child charity concert at the O2 Sheperds Bush Empire where appearances from Noel Gallagher, Cat Deeley, Jamie Winstone, Alfie Allen and Gemma Anderton showed face.

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A video summary of the night can be seen on Sky News footage.

Or watch some of the videos of the Brit Awards on the ITV website.

The Morning After

With very little sleep and residing in a budget hotel for just over 4 hours, I walked past Earls Court to jump on the tube.   The clear blue sky, near silence and crisp air was a complete contrast to the production held the night before, as seen below.

Earls Court, London welcome the 30th BRIT Awards 2010

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